Relationship Dating

Hey fam, I know it has been a while since I've updated my blog but I've been kinda in my own world. But i feel like posting something new today!

As you can see the title of this is "Relationship Dating"... I was doing some thinking and had a conversation about "Relationship Dating"... I feel that it is very important to go on dates while you are in a relationship, whether the relationship is two months new or you're 20 years in... Dating is needed to keep the relationship interesting.

It doesn't have to be anything big or extravagant, it can be the simplest thing like going for a walk or sitting on a board walk just to talk. (if that's an option) I always hear that after marriage a lot of things die out from sex to just acknowledging each other, I truly believe that those things die out because the two involved didn't care enough to keep those things going. Or maybe one party tried but the other was to busy into other things and forgot about home!

Nothing should ever allow one to forget about what they have at home unless they no longer care for whats at home, if that's the case then why stay together? the answer a lot of times is "COMFORT", it's such a shame when we as individuals get comfortable, that's when things start to fall apart right before your own eyes and then it's too late to get that old thing back!

It's so sad that we allow things to die, something that started out so beautiful is now very ugly because no one took the "TIME" out to try and keep things alive... Ne-Yo has a song entitled "TIME"... If you haven't heard it before I suggest that you take some time out to listen to it. If you're in a relationship there's a very valuable lesson to be learned...

When it's all said and done do what it takes to keep your relationship stress free and happy... (well that's only if you really want it to work)... Start this weekend go for a walk or go to the movies, if money is an issue go park up under a bridge and watch the sunset do something that you both will remember... Don't just continue to do the same old pattern it will just breed more frustration, with more frustration you get more arguments, with more arguments you develop more distance, with more distance he/she will find themselves with someone who's willing to put in that "TIME" to go on "Relationship Dates".

Disclaimer: This post is not in no way fashion shape or form intended to be negative, it's intended to give insight so that you don't lose something good or maybe even great!

"Communication is the Key, Which is controlled by Trust"