My all time favorite RnB Singer

For as long as I can remember when ever asked who's my favorite singer I would always reply "Monica, who else?"...

"It's just one of them days, that a girl go through, when I'm angry inside, don't wanna take it out on you"... I use to love that song, I still do to this very day... I was amazed the first time I seen the video (I was about ten years old back then) to see that such a big powerful voice came from this young girl blew my mind! I thought to myself "wow, I wanna be just like her"...



Monica has been in the music game for years i believe its been about 15 to be exact. Her music to me has evolved over those many years, I feel that Monica is a strong black positive female that has been through it all, but she's still here standing to tell it all! I admire her courage and honesty, now a days that's hard to find. I think its great that she can speak about all the things she has been through over the years and that she can give advice on how to get out of and over a bad situation...

I was pleased that BET gave her a reality show, it showed all the different sides of her as a human, a mother, an artist and a friend. I tuned in every week and was satisfied with every episode. I hope she they give her a second season...



As you guys may have already know Monica's Album "Still Standing" is out in stores now and is definitely doing well! if you haven't do so already you guys need to go out and purchase the album. It is a great album I listen to it everyday on the train while on my way to work and back home... I am very happy that "Here I Am" is her new single I cant wait for the video!

Snakes and Fakes!!

Beware of the people around you, everyone has some kind of motive whether it be good or bad, to bring you down or build them up keep an close eye on them and get to know what their intentions are before its too late!

I cant stand a person who just sit around and wait for a perfect opportunity to befriend a person just to be fake... like if you know your intentions are just to get info on a person... ummm let me stop here!!!

Fakes are real appealing just like the knock offs on canal street, they can be real tempting but don't indulge!

Keep ya grass cut real low so u can see them coming, they are always around lurking... Just remember to always go the other way... they can cause u to lose a lot!


P.S. i will go in on a later date... there's a time and place for everything!... this is def the place but not the time!!

Who's Line Is This?

"Im convinced... They Tryna kill me, cuz they sure dont want me 2 survive... Everythings about sides and when ur in the middle ur the 1 that dies."

My likkle big bredda GSwagger from RockStar Society/F.C.E. posted that on twitter one day and I found this to be true!

Be real careful with being caught in the middle, it can cost you more than you think!

Happy Birthday To Me

So my bday was 2-21... I threw myself a little intimate party... Here's my outfit!

Come Out and Party

Bad Girls Club

OK so MrzTalkofNY got me to tune into The Bad Girls Club... I must say it is really crazy, for the first ten minutes all I got was that there are a bunch of caddy chicks that love to argue and fight!(just like i was informed lol) Like seriously this is too funny first they're fighting and arguing with each other, then they get into it with someone in the club and then with each other again when they're back in the house... I guess I'll be tuning in more often... Hey its something to blog about Dont Judge Me!

Relationship Dating

Hey fam, I know it has been a while since I've updated my blog but I've been kinda in my own world. But i feel like posting something new today!

As you can see the title of this is "Relationship Dating"... I was doing some thinking and had a conversation about "Relationship Dating"... I feel that it is very important to go on dates while you are in a relationship, whether the relationship is two months new or you're 20 years in... Dating is needed to keep the relationship interesting.

It doesn't have to be anything big or extravagant, it can be the simplest thing like going for a walk or sitting on a board walk just to talk. (if that's an option) I always hear that after marriage a lot of things die out from sex to just acknowledging each other, I truly believe that those things die out because the two involved didn't care enough to keep those things going. Or maybe one party tried but the other was to busy into other things and forgot about home!

Nothing should ever allow one to forget about what they have at home unless they no longer care for whats at home, if that's the case then why stay together? the answer a lot of times is "COMFORT", it's such a shame when we as individuals get comfortable, that's when things start to fall apart right before your own eyes and then it's too late to get that old thing back!

It's so sad that we allow things to die, something that started out so beautiful is now very ugly because no one took the "TIME" out to try and keep things alive... Ne-Yo has a song entitled "TIME"... If you haven't heard it before I suggest that you take some time out to listen to it. If you're in a relationship there's a very valuable lesson to be learned...

When it's all said and done do what it takes to keep your relationship stress free and happy... (well that's only if you really want it to work)... Start this weekend go for a walk or go to the movies, if money is an issue go park up under a bridge and watch the sunset do something that you both will remember... Don't just continue to do the same old pattern it will just breed more frustration, with more frustration you get more arguments, with more arguments you develop more distance, with more distance he/she will find themselves with someone who's willing to put in that "TIME" to go on "Relationship Dates".

Disclaimer: This post is not in no way fashion shape or form intended to be negative, it's intended to give insight so that you don't lose something good or maybe even great!

"Communication is the Key, Which is controlled by Trust"